Are you a leader or a follower?

I can an absolutely be a leader with people I know and in environments that I am comfortable in.

Now flip it to the follower side if I am in an environment I am not familiar with or around people I do not know I am 100 percent a follower. I find myself just standing next to my husband following his lead. Nothing new or unfamiliar seems to bother him.

So I am definitely both a leader and a follower.

What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

In a world where your mind is always going 100 mph and you’re trying to accomplish so many different things at once I struggle with just relaxing and being patient.

Instant results are satisfying but it’s time to just breathe and be patient . Everything always falls into place the way it should.

What does freedom mean to you?

Freedom to me me is to live my life and be who I am with the freedom of letting go of what others think.

Judgment is something I’ve had to deal with for so long. Women can be brutal and I’ve felt those effects so much in my adult life.

First and foremost I am a Mother to 3 children that are my world . But while I agree I’m not your average woman I love my life and I’ve learned to live my life letting go of the judgement of others .

I’m a Mom first , and every morning I’m a gym rat, I come home to work as a hairstylist and an influencer, and at this time of the year many evenings I’m a biker .

So I go from gym clothes to , hairstylists attire which I’m usually still wearing when I make influencer videos, but in the evening it’s usually bubble braids a bandanna and a tank top. At that point you can also see all of my tattoos . So at that point in the eyes of others I’m not some loving Mom, some hardworking respectable woman. I mean bikers are trouble causing rough people right ?

Well so many people are wrong but I have spent a long time releasing fearing what others will say next.

I feel free now. It’s okay to be who I am and do what I love and look how I want to. People opinions finally mean nothing to me.

That’s freedom in my life. I will freely just unapologetically be me without explanation.

Happy Monday .. smile today doing whatever makes you happy!

What was the last live performance you saw?

The last live performance I saw was Jelly Roll

The funny thing is in two weeks I will be attending another one of his concerts again.

He puts on a great show. I’ve always enjoyed the sound of his voice and the messages in a lot of his songs.

What do you do to be involved in the community?

We are bikers and the best part of being part of that community is using the power of 100’s of motorcycles to raise money for so many causes .

This picture is from the Autism Ride. This is usually our first ride of the year and we raise thousands of dollars for this cause that is kept in our community.

Our favorite rides are the Autism ride, the suicide prevention ride, food pantry ride, and veterans ride.

This weekend we will be joining a ride for a non verbal Autistic girl who can not handle birthday parties because she can not handle crowds of people but she loves motorcycles. We will all ride past her house at a specific time to make her golden birthday special.

We love to use our motorcycle for good causes.

What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

I would love to pick my destination and just pack up for the day and go.

I would just throw my bucket list destinations (that are close enough) in a jar and pick one.

What are your favorite brands and why?

I was just talking about this today at the gym .. one of my favorite brands is Brooks. I was pretty excited my new running shoes arrived.

Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind.

The first thing that comes to my mind on this beautiful day is ..It will be a great day spent with family, full of laughter and love.

I feel truly blessed. Happy Easter !